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    Testing the Soccer Sidelines

    My 40ish year old Bruce is still on the same soccer team he joined when he was in his 20s…bless him…and many don’t know my dad, now 84, also has quite a few years of soccer in his history and not too bad as his friends still tell us.    So since trying to enter our girls into a ballet program flopped miserably and Kristi simply refused…..soccer, of course, was next on the list.

    In our town, we have wonderfully maintained soccer fields with the associated heaps of children and their onlooking family and friends.  So today, Bruce thought a nice outing for our girls would be to watch the local kids and to give mom some quiet house time.  But, about 15 minutes before they were to leave, I jumped out of bed, dressed up, through on the makeup, hair in pony tail, jazzy shoes …and went downstairs and just smiled as I asked,” Can Mommy come?”.  They were are all thrilled!

    This was also a test to see if Kristi would be ready and interested to start some team soccer playing. We watched from the sidelines and it helped that a school friend was playing…I think we’ll give it a try, Kristi get ready for cleat shopping!

    In the mix of the various fields, we spent time with the parents of Kristi’s 4 year old soccer playing friend.  As you can imagine, it’s a bit strange with me not knowing who knows what with me and reactions, well…… this was a perfect handling and acknowledgement.

    The mother, someone I had actually never met, half way through our conversation turned to me and said quietly, “So you doing OK”?  — I looked back and just said, “Great, what can you do? You just keep pushing through”.  She shared some family situations and for me, it was beautiful to have someone not need to see it as drama worthy, but reality in such a “yep” and move on.    Back to soccer talk, just like guys!

    My Tip Here: It’s tough to know how much support, give advice, ask questions, etc when you see people going through any “change in life situation”  ….at the start and throughout the on going process.  Many times, if you think of the person you knew “before”, you can see they may not be the type to talk about their problems in general, these times in life are no different.  Or simply ask when you don’t know. A quick questions like, “Do you want to talk about it or is there anything I can do to help” and if they say no…go back to life and conversation as you would have “before”. Business as usual, no drama required . :)

    6 Responses to “Testing the Soccer Sidelines”

    • Lorraine says:

      Excellent advise! But the real question is, “Did Kristi like playing football [soccer]?” Do you guys get to go cleat shopping ;-)

    • Laura gardner says:

      No idea what ‘cleat shopping’ is but great to read that you are back in the swing of things, small steps but so important. I totally agree with your advice regarding no drama needed. Sometimes even during the most challenging times of our lives, ‘normal’ conversation/activities is just as therapeutic and necessary. We are thinking of you.

      Just a side note, I think ballet for girls can be overrated anyway and unless you think your child has the potential to be a very accomplished ballerina, other sporting activities can be much more beneficial in the long run. I don’t think many girls really keep up their ballet lessons/practice after they are 10…but some will play soccer, tennis, swim well into adulthood. Just my philosophy on the whole thing. So well done for encouraging your girls to broaden their horizons.

    • carla says:

      That is awesome that you are so supportive of your husband’s life long sport and hobby!

    • Sheridan collins says:

      Sue,

      The real question is when are the girls playing cricket??? You know both my boys are!

      Love
      Sheridan

    • Lee says:

      Team sports is where it’s at for kids…

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